Younger men dating older women often have their hands full. If you only have experience dating women your own age or younger there are some big mistakes that you need to avoid. Fortunately for you, we have asked 43 dating experts to share the biggest mistakes that younger men are making. Make sure you don’t become another guy who can’t handle an older woman.
TOP MISTAKES OF YOUNGER MEN DATING OLDER WOMEN
Avoid these mistakes and maximize your chances:
1. TRYING TO “COPY AND PASTE” WHAT AN OLDER GUY WOULD DO
Kezia Noble ProfileKEZIA NOBLE – KEZIA-NOBLE.COM
A younger guy will often try to ‘copy and paste’ or even out match an older guy. This is a pointless strategy because they both offer something totally different.
Older women don’t go for younger men because of their stability, their life experience or their achievements. They go for them because of their ‘happy go lucky’ attitude and their self-belief. Younger guys need to work out what the older guy is lacking rather than what attributes he has.
Dating and attraction expert for men. Kezia has helped over 80,000 men get real results with women.
2. ACTING MORE LIKE A FRIEND THAN A POTENTIAL LOVER OR BOYFRIEND
Dan Bacon profileDAN BACON – THEMODERNMAN.COM
For most people, sex drive does decrease with age. However, that doesn’t mean that a woman wants to be with a man who she feels no spark with.
If a guy wants to be successful at dating and getting into a relationship with an attractive older woman, he needs to ensure that he actively creates a spark of sexual and romantic attraction, rather than only being nice and friendly.
Dan Bacon is a dating and relationship expert who helps men succeed with women. He teaches men how to naturally attract women to get a girlfriend, as well as how to deepen a woman’s attraction, respect, and love when in a relationship.
3. YOUNGER MEN DATING OLDER WOMEN FALL INTO A “JUNIOR” ROLE
Scot Mckay profileSCOT MCKAY – DESERVEWHATYOUWANT.COM
Sometimes younger men may be in awe of the older woman’s experience a bit. Remember, having a plan and leading accordingly turn any woman on, regardless of age. Yet, some guys let themselves fall into a “junior” role with an older woman, which soon leads to loss of attraction.
Scot is one of the most recognized and effective dating coaches to both men and women on the global stage. Now a four-time Amazon #1 bestselling author, over 400 media outlets have consulted him, including ABC, NBC, CBS, Fox, BBC, MTV, Lifetime, Men’s Health and The Wall Street Journal.
4. HANDLING HER THE SAME WAY YOU WOULD A YOUNGER WOMAN
Cheyenne Bostock profileCHEYENNE BOSTOCK – ASKCHEYB.COM
One of the most common mistakes I see men make when dating an older woman is handling her the same way they would a younger woman. Older women tend to be more mature, which may appear to make some of the things a younger man might do seem out of character, which ultimately makes the older woman feel uncomfortable.
The solution is to be conscious of the age difference, and to cater some of the activities throughout the relationship to also suit her needs.
Cheyenne Bostock is a Life & Relationship Expert and Motivational Speaker best known for his straight shooting relationship advice and transformational coaching strategies that have helped him go from homeless to success and has impacted the lives of many individuals who are on the path from homeless to success.
He is the author of two self-help books and writer for The Huffington Post and Inc Magazine, a regular contributing expert on The Bill Cunningham Show.
5. USING TEXT AS YOUR MAIN FORM OF COMMUNICATION
Lucia profileLUCIA – HOWTOCATCHACOUGAR.NET
The biggest mistake younger men are making with older women is treating them as if they’re the same age or younger. Older women are generally not interested in constantly texting or being asked out via text.
Also, they will not respond to men on dating sites or social media if the message is something like, “Hi” or “Hello”. There are many more men interested in dating older women than there are women available, so younger men need to bring their “A” game.
Lucia is a dating/relationship expert specializing in Cougar relationships, author of “Lucia’s Lessons of Love”, former host of “The Art of Love” on L.A. Talk Radio and a keynote speaker.
She has appeared on over 100 national and international TV and radio shows including Dr. Phil, The Tyra Banks Show, E! Entertainment, 60 Minutes Australia, The CBS Early Show, ABC 7 News, Good Day L.A and the KTLA News who called her “The Queen of The Cougar Jungle”.
6. NOT SPEAKING UP
Susan Winter profileSUSAN WINTER – SUSANWINTER.NET
Remember that your opinions count. Just because she’s older (and presumably wiser) doesn’t mean that she gets to call all the shots. There are two people in this relationship. You’ll need to get comfortable exchanging roles as to who leads. It’s an equal partnership.
This attitudinal choice works to your benefit. You’re establishing that you’re the man. Yes, you work with your mate. And yes, you listen to her wants and needs. But you have your own ideas and approach. In order to keep the passion and desire alive, she needs to see and feel your strength. It’s an animal thing. Women need to know they have a real man by their side; capable, decisive and confident.
As seen on OPRAH, best-selling author/relationship expert Susan Winter (Allowing Magnificence and Older Women/Younger Men) specializes in evolutionary forms of loving partnership and higher thinking. She writes, speaks and coaches on accessing our inherent perfection in life and love.
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