Bu Rachel Shatto
What’s the first thing we should do after a first date? According to NYC relationship expert Susan Winter it’s to stop fixating on “wanting to be wanted,” and instead, identify what we want. Because otherwise, “our focus is skewed. From that position, we’re not able to tune into our own feelings and know if this partner is good for us,” says Winter.
I was never very good at first dates. I tended to treat them like they were job interviews, but with […]