By Justin Stenstrom
Guys are often left shaking their heads in pure bewilderment when it comes to different aspects of their relationship. Their wives, girlfriends, or partners of some sort or another, just seem to constantly throw curveball after curveball at them, and their left wondering what to do.
Without giving up on their loved ones, they fight back; but this often leads to more stress and even more relationship imbalance.
You see men aren’t schooled in this department of life. We spend years going to grammar school and learning about math, science, history, and multitudes of other important topics, but we never really learn the most important one of all, relationships. Whether it’s the wooing stage, as in dating and attracting women, or the later stage, as in building incredible connections and experienecs together, nobody ever really teaches us the intricacies of a healthy relationship.
But that’s about to change.
As a dating and lifestyle coach I’ve gathered some of my best friends and colleagues in the world to share with you the best relationship advice for men out there! I figure it’s high time someone put together a resource for men to gather some of the best advice on the planet in this subject.
Look, we weren’t taught how to build and cultivate happy and healthy relationships in school, but it’s certainly not too late to learn how to develop these skills now! The aforementioned tips are just what you need. They consist of the very best relationship, dating, and lifestyle experts in the world; all of whom possess incredibly esteemed backgrounds and trackrecords of proven success.
Your feelings and opinions count just as much as hers.
Don’t assume she’s right… just because she’s a woman. Men often abdicate their opinions (and feelings) under the false assumption that, “Women know how to handle relationships better than men.” Your thoughts and feelings count. Don’t be afraid to speak up and share your ideas for resolving problems and creating better outcomes.
Learn to master your partner’s emotional control panel.
Each woman has her own control panel of hot buttons (issues that upset her). There’s no need to court unnecessary conflict. Most issues are avoidable. All you have to do is listen, and observe. No, we’re not crazy. There’s a reason for our behavior. We’re always telling you what we want and need. Your job is to hear what we’re saying and help us to achieve the loving harmony we seek with you.
Small, consistent acts of kindness boost your partner’s passion.
Showing appreciation for your partner is like putting Miracle-Gro on her sexual desire for you. She wants to know she’s special. She wants for feel that you value her. Thoughtful words and meaningful actions throughout the day will warm your woman’s heart. And, it’s the recipe for creating fireworks at night.
Susan Winter (Allowing Magnificence and Older Women/Younger Men) is a bestselling author and relationship expert specializing in today’s evolving forms of loving partnership and higher thinking.
If you’ve ever wanted to learn the foundations for creating fulfilled relationships, check out these 62 tips from these 62 amazing experts!