From what the younger men have told me, the most alluring quality a woman possesses is her confidence. This confidence shines through with ease. It’s not the appearance of confidence— marked by a facade of coolness, disapproval, or detachment. It’s a true liking of oneself that allows others to feel comfortable in their presence. This is the natural quality of expression coming from a non-judgmental self. True confidence may express itself as playfulness, warmth, wit, or even casual banter. But, at its core, it is real. Men of all ages can sense it, and find themselves magnetized to it.