I had the great pleasure to to do a two-part podcast with Jordan Harbinger from The Art of Charm. His site dedicated to helping men learn the art of dating with style, dignity and confidence. Jordan is in a committed relationship and teaches his followers to become “high-value men.” Unlike the Pick-Up Artist doctrine and all the newer incarnations of this “player” approach, Jordan has taken the best of the original teachings and added the supremely important qualities of ethics and authenticity. If you’re a man seeking advice on how to approach a woman, initiate conversation, establish a connection and find your way to meaningful partnership… this site is for you. Here is the information from his podcast page:

Susan Winter and Jordan Harbinger have an epic two-part conversation about relationships and relationship management. This will be one for the “best of” page in no time.

Topics this week and next:
-How to decide on (and screen in) the type of women you want for a relationship
-How to answer the “What Are We?” question
-How to establish personal boundaries in a relationship
-How to handle conflict within a relationship
-How to handle the transition from the ‘honeymoon phase’ to a real relationship
-Handling common issues & hurdles in a relationship
-How to handle her past
-How to handle your future as a couple
-What to do when she’s pulling away
-What to do when she drops ‘The L-Bomb’
Download the audio file:



Jordan Harbinger
Jordan Harbinger has always had an affinity for Social Influence, Interpersonal Dynamics and Social Engineering, helping private companies test the security of their communications systems and working with law enforcement agencies before he was even old enough to drive. Jordan has spent several years abroad in Europe and the developing world, including South America, Eastern Europe and the Middle East, and speaks several languages. He has also worked for various governments and NGOs overseas, traveled through war-zones and been kidnapped -twice. He’ll tell you; the only reason he’s still alive and kicking is because of his ability to talk his way into (and out of), just about any type of situation. Here at The Art of Charm, Jordan shares that experience, and the system borne as a result, with students and clients.
Jordan Harbinger
Co-Founder, The Art of Charm, Inc.
The Art of Charm: Either You Have It . . . Or You Learn It From Us.