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    “We’re Technically Dating” | Huffington Post interview

“We’re Technically Dating” | Huffington Post interview

By Clarissa Silva

Breadcrumbing is nothing new, it allows you to keep your options open while stringing someone else along with the least amount of effort or regard for the other person. Social media facilitating it is new.

“Our interconnected world allows for brevity. Truncated messages = truncated emotions. Social media removes the effort involved in […]

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    Are Your Bedtime Habits Messing With Your Relationship? Huffington Post interview

Are Your Bedtime Habits Messing With Your Relationship? Huffington Post interview

Sleep impacts basically every aspect of our lives. Quality (and quantity) of shuteye keeps our mind and body in working order, and also plays an integral role in the success of our relationships. After all, irritability and crankiness from a lack of sleep aren’t exactly attractive qualities in a partner.

“If two people are feeling […]

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    5 Tips for a Great Valentine’s Day (Whether Single or Partnered); for The Huffington Post

5 Tips for a Great Valentine’s Day (Whether Single or Partnered); for The Huffington Post

Valentine’s day can be a real head-trip for many of us. Single’s can feel the pressure of not having a partner with whom to share this day of love. Those in a relationship can feel the pressure of social expectation, wondering if their partner’s going to let them down. Both positions can be emotionally […]

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Why Smart Professionals Are Stupid Daters

Countless smart, savvy professionals struggle with dating. Why would these confident and competent people ignore the wealth of information they use on a day-to-day basis? We’ve been told, “Love is a mystery.” It’s not. It’s a skill set, just like everything else we learn. Master your dating life by incorporating your professional skills. For […]

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How to Get Back with Your Ex; for The Huffington Post

You want to reconnect NOW. You fear if too much time lapses your ex will move on to someone new. Like a lost child you wait in place… hoping they’ll return.

The automatic response to an unwanted breakup is to stay frozen. We fear any forward movement will break the ties that bound us to […]

Dating in the Time of Bad Advice; for The Huffington Post

Dating can feel like running a marathon in high-heels and push-up bra… with a bad hangover.

The “no rules” free-for-all system we have today puts men in a vaulted seat of primacy. Men have become the treasured goal. Or so a woman is led to believe.

The magazines that serve as your coaches are failing you, ladies. […]

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    Dating ‘Repeats’ (same person, different package); for The Huffington Post

Dating ‘Repeats’ (same person, different package); for The Huffington Post

You’ve just come back from a date feeling as though you’re in a time warp. Does it all seem a little too familiar? You may be dating ‘repeats.’

It could be the tense guy who’s always critical, the charismatic guy that’s charmingly sexual before he bolts, or the confused guy that’s not sure what he […]

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    The Breakup Wisdom I Learned from my Dog; for The Huffington Post

The Breakup Wisdom I Learned from my Dog; for The Huffington Post

Dogs have mastered the art of unconditional love. Forgiveness, curiosity, and playfulness are just a few of the life lessons we can learn from our beloved pets.

They can also be wise teachers when it comes to a breakup.

I remember the day I got a jolt of wisdom from my beautiful white sled dog, Diva. […]

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    How to Translate Your Lover’s Silence; Huffington Post feature

How to Translate Your Lover’s Silence; Huffington Post feature

Are you getting mixed messages from your partner? How do you know what they’re feeling… if they can’t (or won’t) tell you?

Whether we’re aware of it or not, we’re continually receiving the underlying meaning of words that are left unspoken. How does one tap into those messages and gain clarity?

Using our natural gifts:

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Breakups: How to know when it’s really over; video

Is your breakup real? Maybe not. Breakups can have two distinctly different meanings; they can be final, or an empty threat. Know the clues that reveal your partner’s true intentions. For my complete Huffington Post article on this subject: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/susan-winter/the-two-different-meanings-of-a-breakup_b_5405405.html