Are You Stuck in His ‘Stable?’ for The Huffington Post

Most women prefer to be in some form of “relationship.” No matter how modern those parameters may be, there’s comfort in knowing where we stand with a man. While it’s often the case that both sexes will date multiple partners before making a selection, structure creates the connection and intimacy needed for a relationship. […]

Dead End Love; interview for Bangalore Mirror

Not everyone wants their relationship to end in marriage, but if you feel you are in love limbo, read the signs

Ending a dead-end relationship is a smart move, couple counsellors will tell you, except, not everyone is as prudent. It’s not uncommon, say psychiatrists, to come across individuals who develop suicidal tendencies when they […]

  • n-COUPLES-WATCHING-TV-large570
    Permalink Gallery

    10 Steps to Moving Beyond the Friend Zone, for The Huffington Post

10 Steps to Moving Beyond the Friend Zone, for The Huffington Post

Are you stuck in the friend zone? It’s a rotten position to hold when you’d prefer to be the “lover.” The fear of staying trapped in a minimal position is equal to the fear of moving forward. Frozen in a battle between two conflicting emotions, we wonder, is something better than nothing?

The anxiety of […]

The Gift of Insecurity

Every human being wonders if they’re “okay.” That’s the big secret. No matter what position we hold, how attractive our looks or how much money and power we have… at the core of every human is the desire to be accepted and seen as valuable in the eyes of those around us.

If you’re feeling […]

  • Screen Shot 2015-02-23 at 1.30.50 PM
    Permalink Gallery

    Are You Questioning ‘Till Death Do Us Part?’ for The Huffington Post

Are You Questioning ‘Till Death Do Us Part?’ for The Huffington Post

Why do we cling so desperately to a relationship that’s died? Because we’ve been told it’s the right choice to make.

Leaving a dead relationship takes courage. Staying in a dead relationship takes self-sacrifice. We agonize over this decision; worrying about our future and the repercussions for those we love. Adding to our emotional struggle […]

To Stay, or Leave?

Much of the correspondence I receive asks which road to take when a love affair isn’t working. “Should I stay, or leave?” There is always the option to leave. Normally, this is chosen as a last resort. If there is physical violence, leave. If there is psychological/emotional/financial abuse, leave. Abuse isn’t something to “work […]

  • Screen Shot 2015-02-12 at 8.43.28 AM
    Permalink Gallery

    Valentines Day Success Tips For Singles – Comfortably Single !

Valentines Day Success Tips For Singles – Comfortably Single !

Single this Valentine’s Day? Don’t let the hype around this holiday give you the blues. Being single is a natural segment of our lifecycle and bears many gifts that will aid us in future partnership. So rather than struggle with the day, see the big picture. It’s one day! It is not an assessment […]

  • Screen Shot 2015-02-11 at 9.33.52 AM
    Permalink Gallery

    Valentine’s Day Success Tips for Women; Understanding Your Man

Valentine’s Day Success Tips for Women; Understanding Your Man

Valentine’s Day creates huge hopes and expectations for women. The hype around this holiday can make us all a little nuts. Here’s the day our guy should “prove” his love, right? His gift is the indicator  of his affection (or so we’re led to believe). We don’t want to react to these expectations around our […]

The Heart of Entrepreneurialism

Here’s an awesome interview hosted by my friend and colleague Ande Lyons. We discuss the priceless value of “who you are” and how your character and integrity affects all of your sales, service and success. For those of you who’re in business for yourselves, this conversation explains is the fusion of “Allowing Magnificence” into your […]

Valentine’s Day Success Tips for Men

Are you wondering what’s the right type of gift to give your special lady on Valentine’s Day? Worried that what you have in mind may be too much or too little? Here’s the answer to your dilemma.

There’s a very specific type of gift you can give your woman on Valentine’s Day that will make […]